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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors


Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3809
Latest Activity: 5 minutes ago

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

SERE School

Started by A&B14. Last reply by TomatoPotato 5 hours ago. 1 Reply

Has anyone's sailor been through SERE school? Just hoping he's doing alright..Continue


Started by Chio. Last reply by Chio on Saturday. 9 Replies

Hi Everyone My hubby just left for,BC today Can anyone feel me in on what to expect?Continue

Going to A School with your Sailor?

Started by Jackie. Last reply by Jackie on Friday. 14 Replies

My husband is still in BC but last time we talked he had mentioned our son and I going to A school with him. Anyone have any experience with this? I've been told that if his school is at least 6 months long the Navy will let us move with him.…Continue

marriage and getting stationed

Started by ashnicole. Last reply by Anti M Oct 14. 3 Replies

Hi everyone,I was wondering if you all can help me. my fiancé is currently in A school down in Pensacola, Fl. We plan to get married Aug 1, 2015. I have ben looking at stuff online and on this site and I am a little confused and was wondering if…Continue

How to find a good housing after my husband picks order?

Started by Eva. Last reply by Emily-aaronsgirl11 Oct 13. 2 Replies

My husband is picking his orders for C School tomorrow. Once he figures out where and when he's going, how do I go about finding a good place for us to live? He'll either be in Virginia or San Diego. There are so many choices for apartments and…Continue

How to deal with infidelity?

Started by kittycat. Last reply by NewBeginnings Oct 13. 11 Replies

Hello guys! Hope you're doing great.Well, this is a difficult topic for me to talk about, but I net to get it out of my chest. Last week I found out that my sailor cheated on me during A school. We've been together for a long time, and this is the…Continue

Courthouse Marriage, Ceremony to follow?

Started by MadiKay12. Last reply by Eva Oct 13. 5 Replies

My fiance and I are signing the marriage license when he comes home in December. We are going to just have the small courhouse ceremony with our parents and siblings. Then, probably, the following June we will have a ceremony and reception the…Continue

Tags: reception, fiance, courthouse, wedding

Command Sponsorship

Started by arwenevenstar3313. Last reply by arwenevenstar3313 Oct 8. 11 Replies

My fiance and I are getting married while he is on leave from "A" school. He will be stationed in Italy. I am not on his orders, so I will be fighting to get command sponsorship. Since he is an E3, I know it will be difficult. Many people say that…Continue

Tags: E3, Italy, sponsorship, command

Any wives with husbands currently in BC?

Started by Sailorswife2716. Last reply by Ndlove09 Oct 6. 7 Replies

My husbands PIR is 11/14/14 and he's in ship 14 div 002, anyone who's husband or so the same?

Ship 02 Div951? Halloween Grad date

Started by Cinnamon. Last reply by karen44 ⚓ ♫ Oct 5. 1 Reply

Any wives/girlfriend/fiances who hubs grad date is halloween, or in chicago or surrounding area!! i would love to meet new friends, especially (but not only) mamas!Continue

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Comment by J's Wife on September 9, 2013 at 1:20am
ceh- I'll be curious to hear what you find; that is one of a few places we've been told we may end up in a couple of months.

And gee gee- welcome :) I hope you find the sight helpful and comforting. I know I have!
Comment by ceh on September 8, 2013 at 8:40am

I am making my first trip to Norfolk, it is so over wheleming to see the base!! I have been told so many different opinions about housing. Some people say live on base, others say find off base housing. What are yalls opinion? 

Comment by andrea d on September 8, 2013 at 12:23am

Hello ladies. So I found this mini series on line called carrier. Its a documentary where they went out on the Nimitz during a six month deployment. It has ten episodes and shows the day and life of our sailors while on the ship. it helped me a lot to know what my sailor is up to right now. Also military spouse magazine has had some awesome articles about PCS and deployment you can find it on facebook

Hope you all are doing good. Prayers to all our sailors and their families  

Comment by J's Wife on September 7, 2013 at 11:44pm

Thanks Jenn and Anti M!

Comment by Anti M on September 5, 2013 at 9:49am

If you ever need to weigh a truck yourself, you can go to any truckstop with a CAT scale.  It costs about $10 each time.  You can find local locations online.  Never go into the weigh stations you see along the highways, those are for DOT commercial vehicles only. 

Comment by Jenn_NicksWifey on September 4, 2013 at 10:45pm

No problem, I try to help with what I can.  The first 2 moves we used ABF UPack.  I like their service, but it keeps getting more expensive.  For our next move, which is currently in the works, just waiting on housing to open up, we're using  I haven't done business with them before, but they beat UPack's price for the same space and have very similar contract terms.  Always read the fine print and know the cancellation policy. 

Comment by J's Wife on September 4, 2013 at 10:27pm
Jenn, you've been so helpful!! Thank you so much! What company did you use to drive the truck, if you don't mind me asking? I want our orders already so I can start planning. Lol I'm such a planner!!
Comment by Jenn_NicksWifey on September 4, 2013 at 10:14pm

When we did the Navy reimbursed move last Oct, the wording on the form said you had to weigh the empty truck at the origin and then weigh the full truck at the destination.  You don't have to stop at any other weigh stations.  We used a truck rental that drove it for us.  They dropped off the empty truck at our house, we loaded it and called them to pick it up.  They had the empty truck weighed before they dropped it off and then after they picked it up (same weigh station) and emailed me scanned copies of the tickets after they dropped off the truck.  If you drive the truck yourself, just make sure you get it weighed before and after or you're screwed.  When you do the move counseling, ask the counselor for specifics and read the form before you do the moving then you know exactly what the requirements are.  I know things change frequently in the military, so it's always best to double check with someone who works in that department.

Comment by J's Wife on September 4, 2013 at 9:57pm

How does the weighing of the truck work? I've seen weigh stations on the side of the road; do you really stop at every one of them? Is it time consuming?

Comment by Jenn_NicksWifey on September 4, 2013 at 5:03pm

Yes, you'll send in copies of your receipts for moving costs and fill out some forms and it will be deposited like regular pay. 


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