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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3875
Latest Activity: Feb 3

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by Bronco14 on February 19, 2016 at 4:56pm
Woah hooyahsuzy be careful not to assume and jump to conclusions. When she booked the navy lodge she had nooo idea that it was off limits to him. She assumed all was well since she and him stayed there just a month prior during PIR weekend.She enjoyed the lodge and it was inexpensive which was important to her. If she was aware of that rule she wouldn't have done it. Relax.
Comment by Michael on February 19, 2016 at 4:18pm
I hate to say this but everyone is right. Follow the rules look out for your husband boyfriend or whoever that is in there. Just remember the military can punish you and when he gets transferred to his base your name will not be on his orders and you will be left behind. A good friend of mine had that happen to him. His wife broke the rules kept sending cookies and books at the lodge. When he got his orders he was sent to Japan and being a e1-e3 you can't take family. You can bet that was done on purpose. His wife was pissed and told his husband follow the rules next time. Just follow the damm rules. Like anti m says this is a open page anyone can read this and if you don't think people from the military does not read this you are In fairy tale world. Just like in my job being a cop. My department looks at my Facebook Twitter or whatever. You are now being paid by tax payers and everything you say and do are held in a higher light and your expected to follow the rules plain and simple.
Comment by Bronco14 on February 19, 2016 at 4:11pm
So glad to hear that NavyGF! In a strange way I liked bootcamp because it made my sailor realize how important it was to him, distance really does make the heart grow fonder! Letters are seriously the best aren't they? Now you have nothing to worry about and you can attend the graduation with no worries :) you don't have to but are you going to talk to his mom and explain that the 4 people he listed are the only 4 allowed in the ceremony? It might be awkward for her and the rest of the fam to figure that out the day of.
Comment by NavyGF365 on February 19, 2016 at 3:51pm
Good Afternoon Everyone! I am on such a wonderful mood today. Found out that I got an 85 on an exam and I got a letter from my recruit. In the letter he said and I quote "they gave us the form to fill out for the access list for graduation; your name is first on the list"!!! He just don't know how happy reading that made me. Jeez I love that guy!!! Hope you all are having a wonderful day as well.
Comment by Anti M on February 19, 2016 at 12:28pm

I'm not picking on you Bronco, just remember, anyone in the world can read everything on this group.  It matters more over on the boot camp group, but you never know who is going to stumble across this place with a google search.  

Comment by Anti M on February 19, 2016 at 12:27pm

I have heard of chits for girlfriends to be liberty buddies, but that is hit or miss for getting approved.  Yes, there is supposed to be a buddy, and they are supposed to be together the entire day.  The trick to getting away with it is never admit it, never talk about it, and never post it anywhere.  Only takes one disgruntled person to see your post and bitch about it to the wrong ears.  The Navy is a small world that way.  

That is probably how the wives got away with Gateway Suites.  No one noticed, and no one was given a reason to notice.  

LOL, the Navy knows what sailors get up to, that's why there are liberty buddies.  I never had any, and I am amazed I never got into trouble; had plenty of opportunity!!!  

Comment by SC_girlfriend on February 19, 2016 at 11:56am
Thank you @bronco14 and @AnitaM for the quick responses! I thought I read that but he thought it was okay to stay there because his friends wives stayed there, but they might have just got lucky. I wouldn't want to take the chance! And yes, we are not expecting any chit to be approved like overnight because one messed it up for the whole group. He's in Phase 2 and still will be when I visit. Will he still need Liberty Buddies at this point?
Comment by Anti M on February 19, 2016 at 11:51am

Great Lakes Gateway Suites are specifically off limits to A school students.  He cannot book a room there.  Off base is your only choice.

Comment by SC_girlfriend on February 19, 2016 at 11:40am
Question: Do sailors have to put in a chit or request to have us stay on base? I don't have a military ID so he would need to be my "escort." Someone in his group got them in trouble last week and the instructors said they will not be allowed to put in any "paperwork" for anyone visiting them. Just trying to figure out if he should look into Navy Gateway or just somewhere off base because of this. He's in Great Lakes. Thanks guys!
Comment by alexa_r7 on February 19, 2016 at 11:26am
Hey! My husband didn't want to buy his pics they took in bootcamp, and said he can just get them done somewhere else. I know he probably won't do that so I'm just wondering if I could still buy them. I know I read somewhere that you can call the nex photo lab, but I don't remember how long they actually keep them. Can anyone help me out?
 

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