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FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:

Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3875
Latest Activity: Feb 3

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by taniaoregel on January 10, 2014 at 3:18pm

good mornign ladies, yesturday i got to talk to my fiancee in bootcamp, he asked to send a calling card, do any of you know which one would be best ? 

Comment by Anti M on January 10, 2014 at 2:59pm

He needs to talk to his chief immediately. He is locked into that contract, he can't just get out of it without going through the steps.  The steps include mandatory study and trying his best.  Ff he fails, he'll be re-assigned.  Usually they do get a different rate and go to a new A school, they aren't often sent out undesignated.   The program is very difficult, they know some will drop academically, and they have a system in place to help those who can't cut it.  He just has to tell them he is struggling.

Comment by Stephanie C on January 10, 2014 at 2:37pm

Hello! I have a cousin who is struggling with Nuke A school. He pretty much has just started, but is feeling very overwhelmed. Is there any way for him to transfer to a different job, such as master at arms or something else? What happens if he can't handle Nuke school and essentially flunks out? He would want to get out before that would happen, but he isn't sure what to do and is feeling a little lost so I thought I would come on here and try to get his questions answered!

Thanks!! :)

Comment by rikki_100113 on January 9, 2014 at 2:15pm

Alright ladies, I have a question for you all I was wanting to get into the vinyl monogramming business for like car decals and tervis cups and a multitude of other things. I was wondering if anyone would be interested?

Comment by Anti M on January 9, 2014 at 10:59am

If they need the parking pass info, send them a copy.  It they're taking a shuttle, they won't need it.

Comment by taniaoregel on January 8, 2014 at 4:26pm
Hello ladies, I have a question about graduation, I won't be able to attend to bootcamp graduation :( and I didn't find out my SR wanted his grandparents that live in Georgia to go until last Sunday when I talk to my SR. He said he would take care of the paper work to put them in the guest list, my question is should I mail them the "form letter" I received or what should I do his PIR is 2/7/2014 I don't want to mess up, I want to get all the info to the grandparents so they can be there please help thank you.
Comment by Aeh43 on January 8, 2014 at 4:03pm
My boyfriend is leaving for Chicago for bootcamp in a couple hours! Any advice?
Comment by navywife_lang on January 7, 2014 at 4:42pm

Fairly new to the navy life.. My husband and I got married in July. He has been stationed in Pearl Harbor since April.. I just got here this December. Have yet to meet anyone (other than some people from his ship). Anyone else stationed in Hawaii? 

Comment by Lovemyseabee on January 7, 2014 at 3:54pm

Ryane, my husband is currently in Bahrain, unaccompanied for a year. I am having a very hard time with this...missing him like crazy and the communication and all that. I'm sorry and I feel for you that you didn't get to go. My husband is on IA so I was never supposed to go. If you want, you can send me a message or maybe we could talk sometime. Thinking of you...

Comment by J's Wife on January 7, 2014 at 11:51am

Jessica- try not to worry so much. You'll pretty much need your marriage certificate, social security card and birth certificate for the paperwork. But, you won't do any of it, your husband will have to do it (that always killed me lol). Then you'll take a paper they'll give your husband in to get your ID card (with all the forms of ID, plus your drivers license- I think you only need 2 or 3, but i just brought them all). That's about it. You're automatically enrolled into standard insurance, unless you call to opt into prime. And I received a piece of paper with info on metlife for dental insurance (this one you have to set up yourself, but ti's easy). And moving will depend on whether or not you end up on his orders. Even though he hasn't received his orders, yet. There is a chance they've already been cut and you might not be on them. In this case, as long as it's in the US, you can pay for yourself to move (the gov't just won't pay for it). And you'll still get BAH for housing/rent. I've seen it take up to a couple pay periods for BAH to kick in, just a heads up. Life after A school, for us, has been way better. I love being able to actually live together, again. Also, his superiors are a lot more laid back on a regular basis. The underways (when they go out on the ship for trials or work for like 1+ weeks at a time) are kind of crappy, but they're not as bad as a deployment. And absence makes the heart grow fonder. I would just take all your steps, one at a time. We tried to do that, and just look forward to him getting out into the fleet. Good luck. And again, try not to stress. There are so many things you can't control. I started out like you. Now, I just don't really care anymore. lol If they need something from me, I'll give it to them. Otherwise, I stay out of everyone's way and they send my husband home everyday. 

 

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