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Comment by mn linda (nuke MM ELT Groton CT) on October 3, 2011 at 11:51am

We leave Thursday for Power School graduation for class 1104.

Comment by Connie foaling-lady (Groton) on October 3, 2011 at 10:49am

RE: letters ... I know some of you aren't comfortable writing letters to your sailors; I have to dictate stuff to my husband for his rare letters to our son, ha ha ... but since I was a newspaper editor/reporter for 20 years, letter-writing comes easily to me. Here's an idea that may work for you: clip out comics from the daily paper (sigh, not many households get a paper anymore!); also cute or funny stories or articles that may interest your sailor, or even crossword puzzles or suduko (or whatever that is!). Stuff them in an envelope and add a personal note on a post-it or piece of scrap paper -- so you don't have to write a full-blown letter -- and send off one or two a week. Painless! My son saves his letters to read on Sundays... I secretly wondered if he thought they were pretty lame, until one day he said "I really enjoy getting your letters. Please keep writing to me, it means a lot."  A real Hallmark moment!!

Comment by NancyJo (NNPTC) on October 3, 2011 at 10:08am

We have mental illness in my family, and when my son was 13 lost a friend around the corner from us to suicide, also 13, and 2 months later his 21-yr-old cousin as well. What we have to learn about suicide is that for the person doing it, it seems like the best solution.  Their pain puts them beyond selfishness, or understanding, and sometimes even faith in God.  They aren't doing it to hurt anyone but themselves.

I don't know anything about the wife of the sailor who committed suicide, but even if she was the worst wife in the world, she would have to be one cold fish to feel no remorse.  Maybe she is that way and if so she is the most pathetic human being imaginable. God bless all our sailors, and God bless all of us to help us be the best support we can be to our sailors.

Comment by Mama C (PS E-Class 1202-1) on October 3, 2011 at 9:31am

J's Mom - I wish my son had the same thought on GF's.  He started dating someone 5 weeks before he left for BC!  He left in March for BC and got to GC May 14th.  I understand he may have "wanted someone at home" but the sad part is that this girl is still in high school - she's a senior now.  I'm just not convinced she's marriage material.  I know my son talks to her more than he does me, but I'm still not convinced. 

MN Mom - My son didn't take advanced classes either in high school.  He's doing well, just not what he would like to be doing.  I, too, tell him each time I talk to him how proud I am of him and that I'm praying for him and that he can do this.  He's a smart kid.  He's just never had to apply himself like he is now.  It's a whole new world for him with this amount of studying.

Sending a package today!  I may have to send two - he wants his Bears Jersey!  He was home for Labor Day, but for whatever reason didn't pack his jersey.  I suggested it to him, but it didn't happen.  After I sealed up his package this weekend, I remembered the jersey.  Mailing envelope, here I come! 

Have a great day ladies!

Comment by MN Mom of MM on October 3, 2011 at 12:23am

Penny...My sailor is also in the Power School grad class of 12/2 He is section-7There is usually at least 1 text a day between us even if it is only to say HEY !   I was blessed that we were able to Skype last Fri. Had good conversation about what he sees ahead of him the next 2 mo.   He also talked about some really hard exams a couple weeks ago, scoring lower than he has been used to, but said he is thankful he is passing everything, it's crazy tho to have one exam 3.8, then a week or two later a 2.95..  He just wants to be done.  He told me today he would just like to have time to read a book or have "me" time.   He is going to be 20 in Nov. didn't do any college classes, and not really any advanced science, chem, physics,  or adv. math classes in HS.  In that respect he is doing awesome  which is what I tell him all the time and how proud I am of him.   Girl Friends I am thankful also that the girl, here, is so supportive of him and at this point they are not "in a relationship"  every so often I check on FB if something changes.  I also tell him often  "Upon every rememberance of you I thank GOD for your life."  I find myself also praying for all in his class, and for the instructors to be teaching the best, and for good study groups and all those who help our sailors master this material.

Comment by Mark on October 2, 2011 at 11:35pm

I'm pretty sure that the wife is beside herself with guilt, but should she? We really can't know the situation. My personal view though FWIW - is that taking one's own life in a situation like this is exactly intended to cause the guiltiest feelings possible. It's always seemed to me to be the ultimate act of control and manipulation, and I have a real problem with that. Many kids just aren't ready for the combined stresses like this, and would be much better off avoiding serious relationships - I hope the wife has the support she needs in dealing with this; even if she should feel some remorse for the split, she certainly doesn't deserve this. Hope that isn't too harsh, but - that's my two cents, anyway...

Comment by Sherri_M on October 2, 2011 at 10:57pm

Lorraine and momof nuke...kudos to you both.  What amazing stories. I love to hear about single moms raising such wonderful kids.  Its so hard for married couples and for you all to do it on your own...wonderful to hear!  Congrats!!!!!

 

Momofnuke..my youngest is autistic.  For you to have two..prayers to you and hugs to you as well.  Keep up the good work! 

 

as for GF's, I can understand those that wouldn't want them at this time.  So many times, we felt Michael wasn't doing his best work because he was thinking of Sarah.  PLEASE don't think that I'm blaming Sarah for him being de-nuked, not at all!  I think she helped him through that, when he wouldn't talk to me, he did talk with her.  But I"m not sure that he wouldn't have been able to keep his mind on his studies better.  However, my son is a LOT on the lazy side as well.  Was glad he had someone he knew he could go to.  I must say, SHE is absolutely crazy about him and loves him dearly!!!!!  I worry about so many of the boys (and gals) that don't have anyone.  I know some boys that went into the military--not just the navy, but the other branches as well, because they had no one.  Their parents kicked them out, or were abusive and they had to get out, but they literally have like no one. 

 

Well, group hugs to you all.  I think the world of each one of you. I really do.  I've made some great friends and you all helped me through some dark days---that were for the best, at least for my sailor.  I'm here for any of you, if you ever need to chat. 

 

On a brighter note--having a BRIDAL Shower for Sarah on Oct 16th.  Going to be a large one, cause this will be the only one she has.  Hopefully, we can plan the wedding for when they get to come home at Christmas, so there will be a reception.  She's hoping to move around the 23 or so of the month--so quickly. Please pray for her and Michael as they will embark on this life together. 

Comment by Sherri_M on October 2, 2011 at 10:46pm

momof nuke...thanks for your kind words!  And for your encouragement.  IT is a great field, with endless possiblities!

Comment by Sherri_M on October 2, 2011 at 10:43pm

jsparkle, I really hate to hear that--about the wife, especially not having any remorse.  Just awful!  Still praying for you all there at the base!

Comment by quiltblue on October 2, 2011 at 9:41pm

Packages are very welcomed, as are letters. They get used to snail mail during BC and my son asks me every week, "why aren't you sending me letters???" I tell him, that I would rather Skype or text him (both are free)! Cookies getting mailed this week!

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