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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

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In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

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Emotions galore, but working through it

As I type this blog, I'm on the verge of crying.  In fact, ever since I received the text from him saying he'd been sworn in, I've been on the verge of crying.  I know there are several moms, dads, spouses and other friends and family members who probably feel the same, but here it is from my perspective.

I love my son.  I've loved him ever since I knew I was carrying a child and the very first time I held him just cemented that feeling.  I've been one of his biggest cheerleaders and have always known that he is destined for great things. I've tried to be the sounding board when he has wanted to talk through things- whether it's girls, school, his future, should he wear the socks with the bacon and eggs or the brain waves (he'd wear one of each to solve that dilemma).  We have similar senses of humor, so I always got his jokes. I'm proud that he is going to be a Sailor, but at the same time, my son is growing up and if I'm being honest...I'm not quite ready to let go...I want him to be my little boy forever (granted, he hasn't been my little boy for a while, but he was at least home and still turning to me for help...and yes, I know this is selfishness on my part). 

I'm reading through the various links to find out what his new life will be like and I begin to worry.  Will it be too tough, will he be getting enough to eat, will he survive technology withdrawal at RTC?  But I'm also excited for all the possibilities available to him.

So as he is preparing for his future in the Navy, I'm trying to prepare to.  I will continue to encourage him and be the sounding board.  I'll not (or try very hard not to) weigh him down with my worries.  I'll tell him I love him and let him know just how proud of him I am.  I'll wear lots of Proud Navy Mom stuff and one last thing I'll say...at least his socks will match.

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Comment by BunkerQB on January 21, 2014 at 2:13am

If you don't let him go, he won't be able to establish his own identity. He might have difficulties later on forming relationships In the old days, he would be called a momma's boy. Ya, it's hard. They are always more ready to fly away than you are ready to cut the cord. Here tape this to your refrigerator. Good luck. You are in good company. The emotional roller coast ride is hard but you'll get thru it.

Comment by HuffyMom23 on January 23, 2014 at 8:29pm

I totally get where you are coming from as do many moms on this site.  I worried all the time about whether my son was getting enough sleep during bootcamp, whether he was eating enough, was he sorry he made the decision to join the Navy.  He is my youngest and we also experienced the empty nest after he left.  This was very hard on us for about the first 3 weeks of his bootcamp, and then it got better.  After that you start counting down those Fridays until graduation.  When my son came home for Christmas, he was so proud to wear that Navy uniform when he went places with his friends.  I know it is hard to let them go, but you will be so proud of him. 

Comment by dentalgurl on January 26, 2014 at 6:01pm

So glad to know I am not the only one feeling this way.

Comment by eljac913 (Ship 12 Div 053) on January 27, 2014 at 7:20pm
Hi, it is hard but he will do fine. I also had a hard time letting my son go in Dec 2011 when he went in. Now I am so proud of the young man he has become. He keeps in touch with us and although we don't know everything going on in his life, I feel closer to him now. Hang in there. It will get easier. God bless you!
Comment by doublegmom on February 1, 2014 at 1:34am

Im with you!!!  my son left to GL on 01/28/14 and I miss him so so so much.   Im a proud mom but still it hurts

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