This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Hello everyone I'm new to this and fairly new to the site still trying to learn the site. I do more reading then writing cause I don't know what to say. But this process is harder than I thought. My bf left on the 24th and it feels like he been gone for 5 yrs already. I recieved his box 2 days ago and it broke my heart. Anyway long story short, when does it get easier lol?

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Welcome Amanda!  You'll find all the information on Navy for Moms most informative.  There's a lot to read, but you'll find answers to almost all your questions somewhere on the site.  I was on it constantly while my son was in boot camp.  When does it get easier?  Well, for me, it was when he was half way through his training.  My countdown was getting closer and closer to the end at that point and my family became more and more excited about seeing our sailor.  We were like kids waiting for Christmas!!  Find out which division your sailor is in.  Perhaps someone started a page for friends and family of that particular division.  You will be able to connect with the people who are going through exactly what you are.  And if he's in a 900 division, you might catch a glimpse of him performing at one of the graduations that are broadcast online every Friday morning (probably around week six is when you might see him).  Calls to home are usually on the weekend (ours came on Sundays).  And if you have his address give it to everyone you know.  They love to receive mail from home, but can't always write back to everyone as they have very limited time to respond.  Your mailman will become your new best friend as you wait for letters from your sailor.  Gotta get back to work now!  Don't worry - you'll make it!!!!

Hello Froggy. I really appreciate you taking the time out to respond to me. I haven't received his address yet so I don't know what division he is in at the time but I have been writing letters already. I find this site extremely helpful. I appreciate all the feed back I receive from everyone that is in the same stage that I am but most of all from those that been here already and made it through. I'm sure I'll be ok. It's just still new and I miss him everyday. I'm sure once I hear from him and know that he's ok then it will be easier from there. Again I want to say thanks for your response and good luck to u and your sailor!
AmandaHisNavyGirl...it gets easier when you finally get the "I'm a sailor" call!!!! Then you see him at graduation, and even though that's only for a short time. A school is better because you can talk, FaceTime, text...everyday!!! A school isn't perfect but it is soooo much better than bootcamp!!! Welcome :) and Good Luck
Hello Denise! That makes me EXTREMELY HAPPY!!! I didn't know I would be about to FaceTime and stuff like that while he's in school. Thanks for that info. You just made my day lol.
Amanda, I gotta say that box is pretty painful, however once you get that first phone call it gets a tiny bit easier. Remember that although he can't call often, that first call opens the door for future calls. Congratulations and hang in there.
Yes that's all I want is to hear his voice, then I'm sure I'll feel better. I appreciate your response and good luck to you and your sailor.

AmandaHisNavyGirl- I promise it does get easier.  The first 2 weeks are rough, write him a lot and that will help you cope with him not being home and I promise he will appreciate every single letter he gets.  The 3rd week you notice that you can function a little better without being consumed of worry.  My son left 08/26 so we are well over the 30 day mark and days are moving faster since I can see the end is coming!  Stay strong girl!!

Thanks Tara. It's always good to hear that it gets better. I have days where I can hold it together but today just wasn't one of those days. I actually called his phone today to see what time he would be home. When it finally hit me I was like Amanda get it together lol. I'm sure I'll be okay especially with the help of everyone on this site that takes the time out to help me. I really appreciate your advice Tara. Good luck to you and your Son!

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