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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

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Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3875
Latest Activity: Feb 3

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by Anti M on March 20, 2015 at 10:07am

Happy Friday to those counting down weeks!

Comment by brittanyrmc on March 9, 2015 at 11:52pm

I know there is a page for letter ideas, but do any girlfriends/wives have any ideas that aren't listed on there? I'm not very creative and I write letters every day, so I want to change things up a bit haha!

Comment by TomatoPotato on March 5, 2015 at 1:55pm

The Aircrew rating is AW. 

It is further broken down into AWO (Operator), AWV (Avionics), AWF (Mechanical), AWS (Helicopter), and AWR (Technical Helicopter).  AWO, AWV, and AWF are “dry” aircrewmen. AWS and AWR are “wet” aircrewman.   

The pipeline for “dry” AW's is Naval Air Crew Candidacy School (NACCS), A School, then to the airframe specific training squadron, and finally their ultimate operational squadron.  They also go to SERE school sometime after they graduate NACCS. This can be before or after A School or before they arrive at the final duty station or even after. It all depends on when they fall in the pipeline and when classes are scheduled.  

The pipeline for “wet” AW’s is Naval Air Crew Candidacy School (NACCS), Aviation Rescue Swimmer School (ARSS), A School, then to the airframe specific training squadron, and then to their operational squadron.  They also go to SERE school sometime after they graduate NACCS. This can be before or after A School or before they arrive at the final duty station or even after. It all depends on when they fall in the pipeline and when classes are scheduled.  

Be aware that it can take up to 2 to 3 years of schooling and training to get a fully “winged” aircrewman.  It is a very long pipeline.  NACCS is located in Pensacola and so is ARSS.  I can answer general AW and aircrew questions.  My husband is a current AWVC (Chief Naval Aircrewman). 

Comment by JSunflower1217 on March 5, 2015 at 1:52pm

After all the bs we have been through here I would suggest you stay where you are now and save money and just come down for visits. The instructors aren't very helpful and if you need help with anything there isn't a guarantee that he will be able to pull away from school to help. 

Comment by JSunflower1217 on March 5, 2015 at 1:49pm

That is actually not true. Things are changing over here in P- Cola and it depends on your situation and his rate. My husband's rate is CTT 6y so hes been here for 10 months and still has at least 2 to go but the way they did his orders they were initially unaccompanied. He received a temporary off base chit because I had a high risk pregnancy and was supposed to return to the barracks after holiday stand down BUT while they were in holding for C school they changed all of the orders to have the ACC code of 342 (I think it is?) meaning he now has accompanied orders and lives off base with me, as well as the other gentleman with a family in his class. 

That being said he also had to go through soooo much to get his off base chit approved the first time and when I first moved here he had to get a chit to sign a lease. 

Comment by Anti M on March 5, 2015 at 12:57pm

Correct.  Other training commands allow it, but not P-cola.

Comment by Jenni1453 on March 4, 2015 at 11:40pm

My husband is in Great Lakes now for school. He graduated last Friday. I agree with Anti M about getting through RTC first. It really helped me to take it one stage at a time. A school will be much better. He'll still be busy, but will have time to call you in the evenings. I talk to my husband every day now. They told him that when he hits phase 2 he can request overnight weekends, but I don't know if it's that way everywhere. He will eventually come to live with me, but paperwork has to be processed. Your relationship will be okay. Be supportive. Write him a lot of letters. Don't carry on about how much you miss him and if you're upset, find a good friend to talk to. At least while he's in boot. Even in phase one you can check him out in the evenings and on weekends (not for overnight) but keep in mind once classes start he needs to study a lot! I'm in the process of moving up right now, but only plan to sign him out one or two times a week. Studying needs to be his number one goal so that he can choose good orders! Message me if you have questions or need someone to talk to. 

Comment by Anti M on March 4, 2015 at 11:32pm

Here are the liberty phases for Great Lakes, P-cola is nearly identical.  This will give you a good idea of what his time off will be like.

https://www.facebook.com/notes/training-support-center-tsc-great-la...

At first, he must be in uniform, he cannot drive, and he has to have liberty buddies.  He may request that you be his buddy, by putting in a chit.  He will be able to spend overnights on weekends once he reaches phase three.  Only married sailors may apply for Live Ashore if you are wondering.

Aircrew is a secondary training, do you know what specific rating he will be?  

Get through boot camp first, then worry about A school!  Counting Fridays is a good way to handle that.  

Comment by AOWife825 on March 2, 2015 at 8:04pm
Got the phone call Saturday and PIR letter today. Mailed out 6 envelopes full of letters that I have been writing since she's been gone. Ship 3 Div 148
Comment by Navywife_Nuke on February 26, 2015 at 6:28pm
Yay for a letter. My husband is doing great. He got 4.9 out of 5 on the academic test. He is also consider part of the top 20 of his division and had to show another division how to do intensive training correctly. He was offered a call home for doing that, but gave it to another recruit who was not able to get through to his family on their first call. He said it was the hardest decision of his life but he would want someone to do the same for him. He said they should be able to call home another round march 1st. (Div 920)
 

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