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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3875
Latest Activity: Feb 3

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by Michael on September 13, 2016 at 2:49pm
Also Paige look for a place in Norfolk. I tell everyone to stay in base housing the first time especially now since congress will be voting in the next few months on reducing BHA by 20% and they have the votes to do it to reduce cost. If it passes and you love off base you will have to make that money up some how out of your monthly pay since you won't have enough to cover your rent if you love off base if you love on base you have nothing to worry about. Example you rent off base find a place for $1000 your power bill runs you $150 a month so that $1150 of your BHA and say your BHA is $1200 a month so you think your saving $50 a month for you to do what you want with. The government passes the reduction 20% minus your $1200 a month is now $950 a month of BHA so now you have to take money from his pay to make up the difference and if he makes $1200 a month like my husband does after taxes and deductions that's going to kill you. Now if you live on base you never have to make up the difference the base housing eats it
Comment by Michael on September 13, 2016 at 2:42pm
Paige. Your answers can be solved if you call them. Your husbands orders should have numbers if not call the navy they will tell you. Now you will have to choose which place you want your personal belongings picked up as they will only pick up from one place on there dime. You would have to pick up the rest. Now also when they send a truck to your house to pick up your belongings you are not the only one on that truck they most likely have 2 other sailors stuff on that truck that's how it works. They go to more then one sailors house. But your husband should make the phone calls and find out it's not that hard mine did and then when he could not have got me the phone numbers and I did. It's very easy to do. They told me if I went over our alloted amount it is $100 for every pound over and a E 3 is allotted 6000 pounds from one point of origin.
Comment by Paige on September 13, 2016 at 2:31pm
Hi, how does the Navy move your household furniture? We have orders to Norfolk,VA & our furniture is in a storage unit in a different state! Can Navy move us still? How much would it cost or how does everything work? Thanks!
Comment by Anti M on September 9, 2016 at 9:02am

No, he cannot switch to reserves, although he might be able to re-enlist for a reserves contract.  The health benefits go away for dependents of reserves, except for a paid plan through Tricare (monthly premiums required).  The VA picks up benefits for active duty who have served over a certain amount of time, and have a medical or honorable discharge. As far as I know, dependents get nothing unless the serve member retires with 20 years of service.
There is COBRA to cover the medical insurance gap, but it is expensive.

Comment by Michael on September 3, 2016 at 1:22pm
As far as I know once you discharge your done but it also depends on what kind of discharge. If its dishonorable discharge he also loses the pension. Health insurance will end unless you pick up Cobra but you have to pay for it. If you go into the reserves benefits are a little different higher deductibles higher co-pays I know this as my father was a reservist and is not retired with 25 years. You have to have the years in to get the health care. I do not believe you can switch from full time to reserve you must serve your contract. He should go talk to the Chaplin to get more info. They have all that stuff available to all sailors. When we don't know I make my husband go talk to the Chaplin.
Comment by Paige on September 3, 2016 at 10:13am
Hi, does anyone know about discharge & benefits? Like if a service member gets discharged does the Navy support the dependents or help in any way & can you switch from Active Duty to Reserves before your contract end date? Thank you
Comment by Brooke on September 1, 2016 at 4:24pm
Thank you everyone for your replies, I will definitely take everything into consideration while we look for a home!
Comment by Michael on August 31, 2016 at 6:50am
Brooke one last thing my husband has been in dry dock for 2 months it take home 20-25 to and from work everyday. That's from Virginia beach has zero traffic because he musters everyday at 0530 everyday so there are no cars on the road at 0500 every morning. My husband told me this look for homes that are safe. Safe for you and our daughter don't worry about my commute. A friend of ours takes just as long to get to work and live 2 miles from Norfolk because of the traffic where he is located is so freaking bad. I love our home it's right on the beach and only military can be here so it's quite. Take info from everyone and make your best descion on your needs
Comment by Michael on August 31, 2016 at 6:43am
You can live on any military base as long as there is room we live on a army base/ marine base in Virginia beach and love it
Comment by Brooke on August 31, 2016 at 1:38am
This may be a stupid question but I thought I'd still ask. My husband's ship is being sent to dry dock in Newport News, Va at the beginning of the year. Since this isn't a base there is no base housing. I've been looking at places to rent but Newport News and Hampton aren't the safest/nicest cities. There are a couple non-Navy bases in the area, like Langley AFB (there is one Navy base but it would be a kinda long drive). So my question is does anyone know if the military bases open their housing to multiple branches (ex. Afb allowing Navy service members) I know there are joint bases but what about just "regular" bases? Or are families with service members working on ships in dry dock just out of luck, stuck with either a long commute or living off base?
 

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