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Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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My son leaves in 10 days. I thought I was handling it ok. I e done all the research throughout his DEP time and I know what's happening and when. Today I'm having a breakdown. I'm very proud of him and know this is good for him and is what he wants. I also have a lot of military people in my family so I know the drill. However, he's my baby and today I just find myself breaking down for some reason. Nothing really happened to start it, I just woke up and started falling apart. Prayers are appreciated.

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I so totally understand, Momof2. My son left for BC on April 20 and it was so difficult for me. It was a path that I wasn't crazy about and I kept wanting to say "Please don't do this" but I didn't. I respected his choice and tried to stay upbeat and do preparatory things to keep the emotions at bay. I do have to say that 5 weeks into his being gone, it is worse anticipating the leaving. I miss him lots but when I read his letters and get the occasional phone call, it is obvious that he is thriving in this environment. So while I miss him, I also am so happy that he is happy and I want that most of all. Falling apart is normal but my advice is to not let your son see it and stay upbeat for him. Hope this helps somewhat ...

Hi Donnacatlover, Excellent advice. I share your philosophy. :)

Hi momof2, I am using every ounce of strength to keep it together. My only son and child I raised alone leaves in 10 days too. I am single and will be completely alone. I have realized that I will never be as important to him as he is to me. I was thinking back when I was his age and how my parents were not my focus in life and how I went days without seeing or thinking of them, I was never as close to them as my son is to me, but I know I must let him go, so I decided to accept that and allow him to be a man and not burden him with my own feelings. I love him more than life and will support him and be a strong solid figure that he can depend on anytime. I have been telling myself no tears, only strength, I don't want to hurt him with my tears..When I feel like crying, I go to him and just tell him how lucky HE is to have this opportunity and life ahead and just seeing his beautiful face makes me smile everytime..He was away for 4 years in college, so it shouldn't be too bad for me. The best advice I can give about his leaving, is to just look forward to the next time you see him.,,and count the days.

Guess your son has left by now. Hope you have gotten a call that he is ok. Like you, I've done m y homework of what's to happen. My ex was a Marine, my step son is Army, my brother in law & father in law are retired Navy. The closer it gets, the less fine I am. We all need prayer!

He has been there a week today. It was very emotional but I'm surviving. Got the box yesterday waiting on the form letter. It was as hard as I thought it would be and I'm dieting to hear from him. I think I'll be better then.
Aww, I'm right there with you. I said my goodbyes yesterday at the recruiters. Just couldn't handle anymore.i cried all day yesterday, it's a big transition for both of us.prayers certainty sent out to ALL our childten.

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