This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3875
Latest Activity: Feb 3

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by Jenni1453 on April 9, 2015 at 5:56pm
Oh weird. My comment vanished. Anyway he needs permission to sleep off of the ship. Check with people to make sure base housing isn't bad. :)
Comment by Jenni1453 on April 9, 2015 at 5:55pm
Lol. Good not goo.
Comment by Rachel on April 9, 2015 at 5:51pm
We plan to live on base when we move up there. Is that recommended? Does that make things easier?
Comment by Jenni1453 on April 9, 2015 at 3:53pm
Its a little more complicated than a chit. He needs to fill out a live ashore packet and they will walk him through everything. You'll be approved to move up before he will be approved to live with you. The school will need a copy of your lease before they can sign off on him being there.
Comment by Rachel on April 9, 2015 at 3:49pm

MY husband is going to be through with boot camp on may 15 and then will go to nuke school in Charleston. Once he puts in his chit for us to move with him. what do i do next?  Does it take a while to get approved to go with him? Does he get leave in between boot camp and school? the recruiters said he might.thank you in advance this helps my anxiety so much!

Comment by AOWife825 on April 9, 2015 at 11:24am
Hey ladies. My future wife is graduating next from boot camp. I can't wait to see her next week! And she will be headed to A-School in Pensacola for AO! I'm extremely excited for her. We know her actual school is only 28 days. And they told her she will based at a naval air station because of her job. Is there anyone here whose spouse is an AO? I've heard being married to an AO is like being married to a special breed of the Navy! Her RDC's tell her she's going to fit right in with the AO's. I also heard there is wait time for classing up for AO. Any information is helpful
Comment by Lizzie_Corpsmanwife on April 9, 2015 at 11:04am
@Elise
Hey girl I'm gonna be really honest with you and tell you what I tell everyone that posts the question about Corpsman school. My husband came here April last year and I moved on my own dime here to be with him. It was the BEST decision for OUR family and we both agreed we wanted to be close to each other. I rented a room somewhere on the NorthEast side and would pick him up Friday and drop him off Sunday before 9. I helped him study his butt off every weekend and some weekends we went to Six Flags and the river. Best decision I ever made. He graduated from A school and we stayed here for C school until tomorrow when he graduated and we move to our first station. We didn't get screwed on our PCS because the Navy knows I moved here and are paying for me and him to move from San Antonio to San Diego. Unfortunately that doesn't always happen so we were very lucky the navy ok'd me being here. We for X amount of money which is WOW to us and that will help our DITY move.

Regarding FMF or Greenside, when your spouse arrives to A school, she will fill out a dream sheet with three duty stations and three C schools. She has to be top rank to even get what she wants because my husband and two others were the only ones that got what they wanted. There is a very small chance she could go Greenside of the Navy has a need for her to be Greenside.

Regarding hospitals, when they do clinicals they spend the last two weeks of A school at a hospital.

It is solely up to you and your spouse to decide if it is best for your family to move to TX. It is only 14wks but they have I think a week to two weeks hold time so total 16wks and she can end up being here longer for C school.

Hope that helps and if you have any questions you can totally DM me. I'll answer all your questions to the best of my knowledge.
Comment by Anti M on April 9, 2015 at 10:46am

Also, nuts, thumbdrives with pictures or movies, popcorn, small magnetic picture frame for his locker or rack, gummy worms (melty?), boxers, magazines and comics.

Comment by Anti M on April 9, 2015 at 9:25am

@katiegc .... care packages:   clean socks, playing cards, salty snacks, well packed cookies, gym, mints, hard candies, jerky, tuna packets, drink mixes and water bottles, water enhancers.

Chocolate melts.  Nerf footballs pollute the ocean forever. Glass is hard to deal with on a ship, so no "cake in a jar" (a pet peeve of mine).  No confetti or glitter.

Send scented items (soap, deodorant, dryer sheets) in separate packages from food, the scents can transfer into the edibles and it is nasty.

Comment by Anti M on April 9, 2015 at 9:20am

@Elise... HMs can be stationed almost anywhere, although if she goes through FMF, she would be with the Marines.  As a female, more likely a Marine Airwing.

She could be sent to a ship, clinic, hospital.... there are many possibilities.  HM does not have a sea-shore rotation like other ratings.  They go greenside or blueside instead (and I'd have to google that for you, not an area of expertise).

If you move to TX on your own dime, you may be screwed on the PCS move after she graduates.  I'd suggest long weekend visits once she phases up instead.

 

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