This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3875
Latest Activity: Feb 3

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by Eva on January 17, 2015 at 10:02am
One more thing. Liberty is different than live ashore. With phase 2 he can leave base but he still has to be signed out and sign back in. When he's phase 3 + he can come and go without signing in or out. He'll get live ashore way before he gets phase 3+. Until he's live ashore he can't really stay with you on normal days. Just the weekends
Comment by Eva on January 17, 2015 at 9:58am
We found an apartment on our own. My husband had to go look at them without me. Once we found one I moved in. (paid for the move on my own) Then, once I was there he could apply for live ashore. It took a little over a month for him to get all of the signatures and for them to process everything. make sure he checks the status of his live ashore packet though. My husbands was sitting on a desk of someone who was on vacation for 2 weeks and no one realized it until he asked about it a billion times. Once he got the packet back he had to take it to psd to stop his meal plan and get BAS.
Comment by Jenni1453 on January 16, 2015 at 10:14pm

Eva, I just saw your reply. Thank you! It seems like I just kept being told we couldn't go because it wasn't a PCS move. It's so good to see someone that has been through the exact same situation. For off base housing, does he just apply to be able to live off base? I assume it's up to us to find the apartment and all. I also expect that I may have to move and then he can join us later, once he's earned the liberty? I think another poster said thirty days or so? We're figuring it out as we go. Ha. 

Comment by Eva on January 9, 2015 at 1:11pm
My husband had to talk to relocation, get a bunch of papers signed, get a copy of his new orders and then we were able to start the process. It was pretty quick. We told them when we were moving out of our Apartment and they contacted us with a day and time that they were coming. I'm not sure how long it takes to get everything where it needs to be. We're having it put in storage because we're not going to be there for 2 weeks. They keep it in storage for up to 90 days.
Comment by pax on January 9, 2015 at 1:51am

Jenni1453, after you found out you were going to San Diego, how long did it take to get the movers there to pack you and how long does it take to transport your stuff to san diego? Also, what's the protocol to get the move underway after finding out where our next base will be? Thanks for any info.

Comment by Katheryn4229 on January 8, 2015 at 4:57pm
That's good to know! My husband just filled the chit for me to move yesterday so I do not know anything about the moving process. The office told him they would send movers to help me but do we need an address before they will move me? Sorry I know that was kind of confusing
Comment by Eva on January 8, 2015 at 4:49pm
Katheryn, we actually just did that. My husbands c school is in San Diego. As long as then know you're military and you give them at least a months notice they're cool with it. I've only been here 7 months Our movers came yesterday and we move out on Saturday. One annoying thing, we both had to be there to sign the lease and do all the paperwork prior to move in, but I think everywhere is like that. You just have to plan ahead and be organized. Oh and if you do decide to live there, they only take checks.
Comment by Katheryn4229 on January 8, 2015 at 4:40pm
Thanks Eva! I have seen it online but I do not think I have looked at it yet. Do you know how they are with breaking the lease to move? Cause he has A and C school up there so it would be near a year and a half that we would live there.
Comment by Eva on January 8, 2015 at 4:03pm
We live at fox crest. It's in waukegan. It's not a bad place to live but it's definitely not the nicest place I've ever lived either. But not the worst.Its relatively cheap. Very diverse. Cats and small dogs are allowed. Less than 15 mins to base. I looked at a place called imperial towers online but we never had a chance to go look. Keep in mind you'll be there for less than a year.
Comment by Katheryn4229 on January 8, 2015 at 1:36pm
Hi,
My husband is in A school at great lakes and we are trying to find somewhere to live near the base. Neither of us can go look at places and picking a place online is hard. Does anyone have a year suggestions?
 

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